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Insecurity knocks from time to time,

invite in for a cup of coffee 

talk with it, understand it!

then take that sugar spoon 

and poke it in the eye!!
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I honestly have no clue, however I do somewhat believe that we are all really just desperately searching for "L.O.V.E". To feel the sense of belonging and to feel worthy of love, this makes us rush into any and almost everything that seems illuminating as it appears.

 Sometimes we hang on to toxic things because they are familiar, and that seems safer even when it's incredibly dangerous to our well being. I think some of us are just stuck, or we're confused. we confuse things like infatuation and instant gratification as love and validation.

I think that is what happens to most people. I know it happened to me. Its easy to follow the same pace but sometimes we must slow down... for when we rush we make mistakes!
Just something to think about....




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SADE - SOILDER OF LOVE

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Trip to Marbella, Puerto Banus with my two lovely girlies..I was looking forward to this trip like a fly is to shit, waiting to get into it ..excuse that metaphor but you get my point!!I enjoyed my time with my girlies but, Marbella? would I ever go back?... uhmm... naaahhh!! I'll probably rethink it that when I become a 'super mega rich kid'.. right now I'm just real and even if I was super duper rich and fly (I am fly) there is a level of humility I reckon I would still hold dearly.. I do not believe I was being paro' as my brain cells are in good working order, however my friends considers me to be... I was cripplingly uncomfortable the whole time..
I was the only woman of colour in that town of Puerto Banus, well  who was a tourist that is.. all the other types of blacks were very chard smelly African men selling fake Celine, Hermes and Gucci  hand bags, purses and fake Ray Bans sunglasses.. they came one after the other, after the other and then another, seriously failing to understand  the concept of 'No Thankyou!'. I understand a man has to win his bread but still.. come on!the worst part was that they all had this strong more than B.O stench which lingered for a further 10 mins after they gave up with the poor sales tactics... Any other black people I saw which were so few worked In very low valued jobs like handing you tissues when you use the toilet in a club or resort of some sort. and even they gave me a hard time because I was a tourist in the area, sooo unheard of... flabbergasted.. I felt quite inadequate as every where I went I got stared down.. any-ways enough of me ranting about the lack of multiculturalism in Marbella, I suppose it is a tourist destination  with a clear market who it is surely feeding. now I can understand why the men at immigration gave me such a hard time entering their turrf...I have a tendency to roll with the punches and select the best moments out of the worst... In all things that is!!!The great stories of my life. "No woman, no cry"
CHINGALING:  a bubbly straight forward kind of woman. with a warm personality, great sense of humour with a genuine heart.. Love her mad!!!
SALALABOO my Iranian sunshine, eastern fashion goddess with the mental capacity to win.. Pure Love.
SASHCA-ME:
 Its only me, 'TOTALLY BLESSED'


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MAGNA CARTA WORLD TOUR - LONDON 02 - OCT 14th 2013

My outfit to the Magna Carta world tour. Black silk blouse from Zara woman, last years' purchase paired with tapered trouser form H&M black with symmetric white prints and my trusty black and white low converses for comfort so I can 'Jump around, Jump up and get down'
No outfit of my is complete without one of my many pairs of converses many meaning three but if I could be a campaign face for converse all star footwear because it would just bring me sheer joy yaaahhh =]
CONVERSE ALLSTARS my favour choice of footwear, TOTAL REBELGEAR
I carried a black and gold chain bag with classic makeup look, Kate Moss for Rimmel 702 lipstick and pin-up styled curly hair updo.


by the end of the night my look was completely trashed as I partied and sweat and sang along to the songs I knew ..(only a few)
anyways London 02 arena presented live nation, #rocnation. To be fair I was never a massive Jay Z fan especially hearing about illuminati affiliations etc... Kinda scared me a little like ich... But I got sooo gassed on him after going to see him performance. totally Epic.com.Was the bomb.
I loved the way he ended the show with the tune forever young it had such a nice atmosphere to the arena with everyone lighting up and singing along. #foreveryoung except reality is always something.

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 BY 2QHAN



ONE THE CHANNELS  I'VE SUBSCRIBED TO ON  YOUTUBE, I LOOK FORWARD TO FRI' NIGHT UPLOADS OF THE CHIC TAKE ON HER TUTORIALS FOR PATTERN CUTTING AND GARMENT MANUFACTURING... CHECK IT OUT.. YOU WILL DEFINATELY BE "DOING IT YOURSELF"